Thursday, January 18, 2018


For most people, an engagement ring is the most precious piece of jewellery they will own in their lifetime.

It symbolises a promise, a future and and a very exciting time.

It’s something you will (hopefully) wear every day for the rest of your life.

So what do you do if when the moment comes, and the love of your life gets down on one knee, opens the box and well… you’re a bit disappointed?

That’s exactly what happened to one MumsNet user.

Not only was she underwhelmed with the ring itself, she was more upset by the amount her new fiance has decided to spend on the ring.

She later found the receipt and discovered he had forked out £1,300 on the ring.

And while most people would be over the moon to be proposed to with a ring with that kind of price tag, she expected more.

Man holding engagement ring, close-up of hand
The ring wasn’t quite what she was expecting (Image: Getty Images)

So she took to the forum to ask other for advice.

She writes: “DP proposed and presented me with the ring he’d chosen – a diamond solitaire in white gold.

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“I was so happy and excited to accept but was disappointed when I first saw the ring.

“The first word that entered my head was ‘small’.

“There’s nothing to dislike about the type of ring per se, as a diamond solitaire would have been my choice, but it’s the whole thing – the colour of the gold, the setting, the small stone and relatively chunky shoulders.”

“His salary is nearing a 6 figure sum and he’s usually very generous.

She had high expectations for the ring (Image: Getty Images)

“Having seen the receipt I know he paid £1,300 for it – which is a lot less than I would have imagined he would have spent on such a significant piece of jewellery.

“He’ll be more disappointed in me for making a fuss over it when, in his eyes, it fits and there’s nothing actually wrong with it rather than being disappointed that I’m not truly happy with it.

“Someone at work apparently told him that ‘if she makes it all about the ring, then she’s not the girl for you’.

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“Ideally I would have loved for us to have chosen a ring together and made a special day finding one we both liked.

“As it’s something I’ll be wearing every day and is such a special piece of jewellery I wanted to really love it and I just don’t. ”

Unsurprisingly, her comment didn’t exactly go down well.

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She has no idea what to do about the ring (Image: Getty)

User Mavis Flump The Fairy wrote: “Blimey. I’d have been delighted; talk about being ungrateful, the person at work is 100% right.”

Is she right to be upset?

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PinkHeart5911 added: “I don’t really see your problem? All you don’t like about the ring is it’s “small” and only cost 1300 wher

“I’d be disappointed if I asked someone to marry me and they made a fuss over the ring tbh. I mean someone wants to commit the rest of your lives together and you want to make a fuss over a ring?

“Marriage and a life together is about so much more than a ring

“Maybe be an adult and understand that a ring doesn’t make a marriage?”

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User SD60659 got straight to the point, writing: “Holy f*****g s**t.

“Is this serious or are you trolling?

“What do you want? Do you want to marry him or do you want a big t****y ring?

“1300 quid is a lot of money to most people (I don’t give a s**t how much he earns) and you sound like the worst person imaginable. I hope he dumps you.”

Lots of people have reminded her that marriage isn’t all about the ring (Image: Getty)



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